Have you ever checked the head space on that gun? Your brass is failing in the area that is worked the most if the brass has to expand quite a bit to fit the chamber because the bolt closes back further from the case head than it should. Both neck sizing only, since you are using his brass in one gun only, and annealing should help. Bringing head space into specifications, if it isn't, will help, too.
HOWEVER, the reloadability of brass varies greatly. Some factory loaded military brass is notorious for coming split. Turkish 8mm and Bulgarian 7.62x25mm Tokarev come to mind... but they are both Berdan primed and not candidates for reloading. Sellier and Bellot (S&B) commercial rifle brass is well-known for being good for about 3 reloads. S&B pistol brass is as reloadable as any other brand. The main cause of brittleness of rifle brass in the neck and case mouth area is working it back and forth... firing stretching it and resizing pushing it back together. Annealing addresses this but does not extend case life to perpetuity, and supposedly doesn't help at all with S&B rifle brass. Rifle brass also stretches and thins in an area close to the rim... and when it stretches too much here, that's that. Reducing loads helps extend the useful life of brass. Firing hot loads reduces its useful life.